Friday, 7 July 2017

The biggest mistake that we make in any relationship is when we try to change the other person; and expect them to behave in a manner that we would have done in a particular situation. What we forget in all this bargain is that every individual is different and loving them unconditionally without prejudice is what it takes for a successful relationship. Be it a relationship with a friend, a lover or a family member.

Amd while trying to do this, we end up fighting and inturn hurting ourselves only. But the real way is to behave thw way you are; because even you are different. Don't change the other person deliberately. Let him or her change looking at your behavior.  But again there should be no complulsion.

You may be good, but every time when your opinion doesn't match with the other person; doesn't mean that they are bad or they are wrong. They can be good in their own ways.
Their way of caring and lovibg may be different than yours. What is important is the feeling and intenstion behind any action.

So, the only rule for healthy relationships is TO ACCEPT PEOPLE THE WAY THEY ARE, WITHOUT TRYING TO CHANGE OR ALTER THEM DELIBERATELY. Just keep giving love and only then you can get maximum love that they can give.

Have a great l

1 comment:

  1. छोटे मन से कोई बड़ा नही होता..॥
    टूटे दिल से कोई खडा नही होता.!!!

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