Life is something which is supposed to be lived freely. We should not suppress any of our desires until and unless they are harmful to others. 

But compromising your wishes in order to maintain someone else’s standard is definitely not a wise choice. You might initially do this for whatever reason, but eventually you end up making it a way of your life, so much so that even though you are suffering the consequences yet you can not change it. Because somewhere down the line even you start believing that this is the way how things should be. You start to criticise your own wishes thinking they are unworthy or pointless. In a way indirectly you start criticising your own self, and lose your self confidence. And in all this bargain, without your notice you end up losing your own self, your own version of yourself. And of course no one can play anyone else’s role. And in trying to fit in other people’s standards you start living a borrowed life, one day ending it in the frustration of not having achieved anything.

So my dear friends, this is the time. We need to change the way we look at our lives. Feel free to embrace your wishes. Live your life fully, the way you want to, without getting bothered about any judgements that are being made against you.  Of course don’t harm others (lol). But learn to stand tall in your own shoes however outdated or worn our they may be rather than standing slouched in someone else’s borrowed high branded shoes.

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