Even when you are angry, very angry, remember not to utter bad words for others, because your anger will calm down and will be forgotten but not the bad words. They do a forever harm.

Remember not to DISRESPECT even when you FEEL DISRESPECTED.🙏🏻😇

I hate my weakness; my inability to walk away from relations even when i feel hurt; even when i feel not respected. I dont know why i am like this. Am i wrong? Am i so wrong that they have to behave like this? Do i only instigate them to behave like this? I dont know. I really dont know. I only know that i cant walk away because i value relations more than my ego. I cant leave my people half the way because i am hurt. Because relations are meant to be preserved and not tossed away. I may be wrong but that is how i am and if i behave differently it hurts me even more. But at times i also feel that do i give a bit too much right to other people to hurt me? Am i the one who is resonsible for this? But if ‘yes’ then what is the solution? Because i dont know how to be rude with people i love. I might shout momentarily but i cant withdraw. I really dont understand whether this is a good quality or a curse.

Life is changing.
The reason yet unknown.
I know its changing
But the reason is still hiding itself
As if behind the wail of bride’s gown

Yeah its indeed changing
From informative shows to boring love stories
And from mature decisions to unnecessary worries

Yeah indeed its changing
From hatred to love
As if happiness itself is kneeling in front of me with a bow

But i can’t accept this feeling
May be
For some more time it still needs to remain under the ceiling

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म्हटलं आज खूप दिवसांनी
पुन्हा लेखणी उचलुया ...
भावनांनी भरून वाहणारी
मनाची खोली रिकामी करूया...

पण काहीच सुचेनासं झालं...
माझं मलाच हे असं काय झालं?

वाटतंय जणू शब्दांनाही गंज चढलाय,
जुन्या लोखंडी अवजारांसारखा
जणू त्यांनाही थकवा आलाय....

एकी कडे मनात भावनांची गर्दी झाली होती.
जणू पिंजऱ्यातल्या पक्षांप्रमाणे
त्यांनाही बाहेर पडायची घाई झाली होती....

सगळेच जणू एकाच बरोबर बाहेर येऊ पाहत होते
मनातील सारे भावंही आजच मुक्त होऊ पाहत होते....

आज खूप दिवसांनी लिहायला बसले
म्हणून असेल कदाचित....
लिहायची सवयच मोडली होती कदाचित....

 पण आता खूप मोकळं वाटतंय
मोठं ओझंच जणू खाली उतरतंय.

कारण
आज खूप दिवसांनी पुन्हा लेखणी उचलली
आणि भावनांनी तुडुंब भरलेली मनाची खोली
शेवटी एकदाची रिकामी केली.....

😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

मनातील काही गोष्टी ,
मनातंच राहू द्याव्यात.....
न सांगताच जणू,
त्या परस्परांना समझाव्यात....

शब्दांना जशी काही,
रजा द्यावी....
न बोलताच जणू,
विचारांची पेटी उघडावी.....

खरंच काही गोष्टी मनातच राहू द्याव्यात.... 

Life is something which is supposed to be lived freely. We should not suppress any of our desires until and unless they are harmful to others. 

But compromising your wishes in order to maintain someone else’s standard is definitely not a wise choice. You might initially do this for whatever reason, but eventually you end up making it a way of your life, so much so that even though you are suffering the consequences yet you can not change it. Because somewhere down the line even you start believing that this is the way how things should be. You start to criticise your own wishes thinking they are unworthy or pointless. In a way indirectly you start criticising your own self, and lose your self confidence. And in all this bargain, without your notice you end up losing your own self, your own version of yourself. And of course no one can play anyone else’s role. And in trying to fit in other people’s standards you start living a borrowed life, one day ending it in the frustration of not having achieved anything.

So my dear friends, this is the time. We need to change the way we look at our lives. Feel free to embrace your wishes. Live your life fully, the way you want to, without getting bothered about any judgements that are being made against you.  Of course don’t harm others (lol). But learn to stand tall in your own shoes however outdated or worn our they may be rather than standing slouched in someone else’s borrowed high branded shoes.

😊😊😊